Worried Your Baby Will Favor One Mom? Discover the Proven Blueprint That Builds Equal Attachment With Both Mothers
Plus, I’ll include access to the Bonding Foundations training from our $497 postpartum course at no extra cost!
(CURRENTLY ON SALE)
The Only True Parenting Resource Available Online For Two Mom Families
HERE'S HOW IT WORKS:
Bonding Foundations for Two-Mom Families…
✅ We guide you through how bonding really develops — breaking down connection into everyday caregiving, feeding, play, and soothing…
✅ We show you how both moms can share practical bonding practices equally, regardless of who gave birth or who is biologically related, supported by evidence and lived experience…
✅ You walk into your baby’s first 90 days feeling confident and included — knowing your little one is building secure, lasting bonds with both of you…
...As simple as that!
HERE’S WHAT’S INCLUDED:
PDF GUIDE: THE 90-DAY BONDING BLUEPRINT
As a two-mom parent myself, I’ve worked through many of the same fears you may be holding right now. As an educator and postpartum doula, I’ve grounded everything in attachment science and evidence-based research. That means you’re not just getting reassurance from lived experience — you’re also getting practical, proven tools you can truly rely on.
SECTION 1: THE TRUTH ABOUT BONDING
I’ll break down the science showing that bonding isn’t about birth or biology — proving that both moms can create equally strong attachment, whether love comes instantly or unfolds over time.
Section 2: How Babies Form Bonds
You’ll discover six everyday pathways of bonding — caregiving, closeness, play, feeding, sleep, and rhythms — with clear ways each mom can connect in her own style.
Section 3: Bonding in the First 90 Days
Your week-by-week map of what to expect in those early months for baby, birthing mom, and non-birthing mom, so you’ll understand what’s typical mentally, physically, and emotionally.
Section 4: Common Patterns & When to Seek Support
How to know when feelings of delayed bonding, jealousy, or disconnection are part of the adjustment — and when they may signal it’s time to reach out to your primary care provider or a trusted mental health professional for extra support.
Section 5: Your 12-Week Bonding Roadmap
This is your actionable playbook with 12 weeks of mini bonding prompts mapped to the six pathways from Section 2 — customizable for each mom’s role, pace, and rhythm. Try them, adapt them, repeat.
Section 6: Common Concerns Reframed
From shifting baby preferences to doubts about feeding or delayed feelings, we’ll tackle the most common two-mom concerns head-on and turn them into clear, confidence-building strategies.
LIMITED TIME ONLY BONUS:
BONUS TRAINING (FROM MY $497 COURSE): THE 3 CORE PRINCIPLES OF BONDING
(currently being filmed- coming November 30!)
Responsiveness — discover how consistently responding to your baby’s cues builds deep trust and security.
Presence — learn how simple moments of eye contact, soothing, and shared care create lasting connection.
Nurture — see how everyday caregiving (feeding, diapering, play, sleep) naturally strengthens attachment over time.
HOW BONDING FOUNDATIONS FOR TWO-MOM FAMILIES CHANGED MY LIFE:
👶 With my first baby, bonding didn’t come right away even though I was the birthing mom — but within 6 weeks of using these strategies, I went from feeling guilty and worried to truly connected and in love.
💞 I was able to lean on the same tools from the very beginning for our second — and this time, the bond felt natural and immediate.
🤱 My wife used our bonding practices to feel equally included as the non-birthing mom — and our baby turned to her for comfort and security just as much as to me.
🌙 By applying a simple nighttime care framework, we found that responding together at night wasn’t just practical — it strengthened our baby’s attachment to both moms.
🍼 Feeding became more than just nourishment — through a combination of breastfeeding and bottles, we discovered it was a powerful bonding opportunity for both of us.
SO HERE'S MY OFFER TO YOU…
WE WILL GIVE YOU A COMPLETE 90-DAY BONDING BLUEPRINT BACKED BY ATTACHMENT SCIENCE, SO YOU CAN ENSURE YOUR BABY FEELS EQUALLY LOVED AND SECURE WITH BOTH MOMS...
For just $97
For Just $27!
(72.16% off the $97 we usually charge for these materials)...
✅ You spend a few minutes exploring the 90-Day Bonding Blueprint — written in parent-friendly language, backed by attachment science...
✅ We guide you through how bonding really develops — breaking down connection into everyday caregiving, feeding, play, and soothing...
✅ You start using simple, practical bonding practices — equally shared between both moms, and designed to fit into your daily rhythm...
✅ You walk into your first 90 days feeling confident and included — knowing your baby is building secure, lasting bonds with both of you!
...As simple as that!
PLUS GET ACCESS TO:
✅ The same 3 Core Principles of Bonding training that shows you exactly how to nurture responsiveness, presence, and everyday care into lasting attachment...
✅ Section 1: The Truth About Bonding — why instant connection isn’t the only way love grows...
✅ Section 2: How Babies Form Bonds — everyday caregiving and soothing explained in simple terms...
✅ Section 3: Bonding in the First 90 Days — evidence-based reassurance that both moms are equally capable...
✅ Section 4: Common Patterns & When to Seek Support — a milestone-by-milestone roadmap for secure connection...
✅ Section 5: Your 12-Week Bonding Roadmap — celebrate differences while thriving as equal mothers...
✅ Section 6: Common Concerns Reframed — gentle reframes for your deepest bonding concerns...
✅ And MUCH, much more…
From The Desk Of Vanessa Ingram
Dear Two-Mom Families Preparing for Your First Baby...
If you want your baby to feel equally connected, comforted, and secure with both moms from the very beginning…
And if you want to step into motherhood with confidence, clarity, and the reassurance that your bond as a family is strong and unshakable…
Then you’re in the right place.
Here’s why:
I’m Vanessa Ingram — a postpartum educator, doula, and a proud two-mom parent myself.
When my wife and I welcomed our first baby, I remember feeling both overjoyed and overwhelmed. Even with all my training, I found myself wondering: Am I doing this right? Will our baby truly feel connected to both of us in the same way?
We quickly discovered that most parenting resources weren’t written for families like ours. The books, classes, and blogs all seemed to assume “mom and dad.” My wife and I were left piecing together advice that didn’t fully speak to our experience as two mothers.
So we did what so many two-mom families do — we figured it out ourselves.
Day by day, we showed up. We took turns responding to cries, traded off feeds, comforted during the hard moments, and celebrated the sweet ones. And slowly but surely, we began to see the bond growing — not just between our baby and the birthing mom, but with both of us, equally.
That’s when it became so clear: bonding isn’t about biology. It’s about presence, love, and the small daily moments of care.
And once we understood that, everything changed.
I wanted other two-mom families to feel that same relief and reassurance without having to piece it all together on their own. That’s why I created Bonding Foundations for Two-Mom Families — a complete 90-day blueprint that shows you exactly how to nurture secure attachment with your baby, so both moms feel equally connected and confident from the very beginning.
This is the resource I wish I’d had when we started our journey. And now, it’s here for you.
With love and solidarity,
- Vanessa Ingram
HERE'S WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
● How to nurture a strong bond with your baby — even if it doesn’t feel instant
● Why biology doesn’t determine connection — and how both moms build it equally
● The core ways babies attach: play, comfort, feeding, soothing, and presence
● How to share bonding responsibilities with clarity, confidence, and ease
● How to turn these early months into the foundation for lifelong connection
Can’t wait to see you in there!!
Vanessa Ingram
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